There’s no big fight. No betrayal. No shouting or silence. Everything is fine - but you can’t shake the feeling that something’s missing.

And so you start to question yourself.

Am I being too sensitive? Is this just what happens over time? Shouldn’t I be grateful?

But here’s the truth: when a relationship becomes “fine,” it can start to feel emotionally flat. And if you’re the one who wants more - more intimacy, more presence, more truth - it can feel incredibly lonely.

Let’s talk about what’s really happening underneath the “fine.”

What Is Emotional Numbness in a Relationship?

Emotional numbness isn’t always loud or obvious. It doesn’t necessarily look like conflict, betrayal, or dramatic distance. In fact, it often hides in plain sight - under routines, responsibilities, and surface-level peace.

It can feel like:

• You’re functioning like roommates instead of romantic partners

• Conversations are practical but not personal

• There’s a lack of warmth, affection, or emotional intimacy

• You’re going through the motions but don’t feel deeply connected

• You avoid bringing up how you feel because it seems easier to stay quiet

• There’s a sense of emotional fatigue, apathy, or inner flatness

This kind of numbness can arise from years of subtle disconnection, unresolved hurts, emotional neglect (even unintentionally), or from simply being in survival mode for too long - especially in the face of parenting, career stress, illness, or trauma.

Often, people don't even realize how emotionally shut down they've become until they're sitting in therapy saying, “I just don’t feel anything anymore.”

It's important to understand: emotional numbness is not a character flaw - it's a coping strategy. Your nervous system may have learned to "turn the volume down" on difficult feelings… but it can’t selectively mute pain without also muting joy, love, and aliveness.

The good news? This numbness can be explored, understood, and shifted - gently and at your own pace.

Why Therapy Helps

In my work offering individual therapy, couples therapy, and ketamine-assisted therapy in Fort Lauderdale, I see how numbness is often a protective strategy. It’s how the nervous system copes with years of emotional shutdown, disappointment, or feeling unseen.

Here’s what therapy can help you do:

• Reconnect with your emotional life and inner world

• Explore the patterns keeping intimacy at bay

• Shift from autopilot into authentic connection

• Learn new tools to bring emotional safety back into your relationship

Ketamine-Assisted Therapy: A Doorway Back to Feeling

For some individuals, ketamine-assisted therapy opens a window to the emotional clarity, softness, and self-compassion that have been missing for too long. It's not a magic fix, but paired with integration and therapy, it can offer a powerful reset when you're stuck in numbness.

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In this one-page resource, you’ll learn simple, grounded practices to help reconnect with yourself and your relationship — even if you feel flat, checked-out, or like you're just coexisting.

I offer a free 10-minute phone consultation for anyone curious about working together. Whether you're looking for individual therapy, couples counseling, or want to explore if ketamine-assisted psychotherapy is right for you, I'm here to listen.

Warmly,

Corinne